Trying to win an ex back can be a tough battle, and winning at all is especially difficult. So, learning how to avoid the common mistakes made is one way to go about it in a healthy and positive light.

1. Over Contacting Him – Constant texts and calls may be mistaken to be wanting too much instead of giving each other space to think things through.
Consider some form of “no contact” to allow both to gain a perspective.

2. Begging or Pleading – Begging generally detracts from your dignity and lessens appeal. Strive for communication to be respectful, confident, and mature.

3. Acting Like You Are Someone Else – Don’t lose yourself trying to impress him. Authenticity is key. Try to become the best version of you, not the best version of you for him.

4. Rehashing Past Mistakes – Constant reminders of the old issues can actually delay the healing process. Mistakes must be learned from; however, strive to let go and not hold grudges or bring up past conflicts.

5. Trying to make him jealous – In most cases, applying jealousy techniques like flaunting new relationships will have the opposite effect. Live your life in full bloom because that is how they will attract positive attention accordingly.

6. Neglect of personal needs – Take care of yourself. Do not forget to want him back for the right reasons. Do it because he is someone important in your life, not to fill up a vacuum left by his absence.

7. Giving the Reason for the Breakup Ignorance – Don’t gloss over the unsolved issues. Reflect on what went wrong and address those areas before you pursue a new chapter.

The right approach towards a reunion with respect, confidence, and honesty may be the best shot for success. Avoid all these pitfalls and make room for a much stronger, healthier relationship built on real connection, not quick fixes.