After a breakup, you feel that you have to stay close to your ex so as to fix things and revive the relationship. Giving your ex some space is usually much more of a better strategy toward reviving things. Here is why it works and how to do it right.

1. Space Allows for Clarity – Space allows both of you to gain a clear perspective on the relationship without the emotional intensity of a breakup. This can lead to insights that create a healthier future connection.

2. Absence Builds Fondness – The saying, “absence makes the heart grow fonder” holds true here. You are giving your ex some breathing space and letting them naturally start missing you. This might also be a chance to re-fall in love again.

3. Shows Respect for Boundaries – By respecting their need for distance, you display emotional maturity and respect-a total must-have for any relationship. Boundaries lay down the ground of mutual respect if you reconnect.

4. Helps you focus on yourself – You should spend this time on self-development, which finally gives one strength and confidence. Self-development is very ‘attractive’ to an ex, and it doesn’t matter how things are going to turn out-they will feel good.

How to Give Space the Right Way

Giving space is not when you play games or try to make your ex miss you by silencing him/her. Instead, it is giving him/her enough time to heal and reflect on what he actually wants in life. Here are some tips in giving space with effectiveness:

Stop all unnecessary contact – Resist the urge to text, call, or check their social media. Let them be.

Focus on self-growth – Use this time to work on becoming a better version of yourself, one who is secure and independent.

Set a timeframe for yourself – Giving space doesn’t mean waiting forever. Decide on a period to take time for yourself before reassessing if you want to reconnect.

Keep an open mind – If you do reconnect, be prepared for the possibility that things may have changed. Both you and your ex might have new perspectives or even realize that moving on is the best decision.

Indeed, sometimes it is even that some space from each other after a breakup gives opportunity for reflection and self-growth and, most importantly, renewed feelings for one another. In most cases, giving in a little bit inspires a stronger and more honest reconnection.